I’ve got another great tip to celebrate your single self this holiday season...
I want you to become a flirting master!
Now, you don’t have to lose 20 pounds to rock your inner flirt.
You don’t have to get plastic surgery or get a new wardrobe either.
Flirting can happen anytime, anywhere, with anyone.
When you're at the grocery store and looking for produce, keep a look out for the cuties in your vicinity. Smile, make eye contact, and give him permission to approach.
By giving yourself permission to be open and to see who's in your environment, you can start flirting and having fun today. This is your chance to reclaim your fabulousness, and what better time then the holiday season!
To celebrate your sassy self, report your progress to me @ ask@lisasteadman.com.
Monthly Archive for November, 2009
With the holidays upon us, healing and moving on from a broken heart can be especially challenging.
You worry about being the only one minus a plus one at parties.
And sometimes you're freaked out because you don’t want to answer all of those mind numbing and selfish questions:
Where’s whats his name?
What happened?
What went wrong THIS time?
Sound familiar? I get it. I've been there myself.
Healing your heart during the holidays can feel painful, hurtful, and like there's something wrong with you.
Before you hide under the covers until New Year's, give yourself permission to pick and choose the parties you go to.
Now, don't become hermit -- choose the parties where there will be people who love you, support you, and nurture you. Gravitate towards situations where your friends and loved ones can help you celebrate your single status.
In the search for love, it’s easy to get sidetracked by bad dates, broken hearts, and bad love habits. And while bad dates and broken hearts are part of the journey toward happily ever after, bad love habits are an unnecessary evil that you can easily break free of once you identify those silent saboteurs.
So what’s a bad love habit? Any dysfunctional, destructive, dramatic belief you have about love, your general worthiness, and what's possible for you on the dating scene. The following are some common bad love habits:
• Do you secretly fear that the guys you really want to date aren't into you, while the guys you're not into can't get enough of you? (And if so, how's that working in your dating life?)
• Do you choose potential partners who are incapable of meeting your emotional needs?
• Do you think love and relationships have to be difficult, disappointing, dramatic, and/or depressing?
• Are you convinced that your potential partner is going to fix whatever it is that you don’t like about yourself or your life so you don't have to do anything right now but sit back and wait for him to show up?
• Are you terrified that time is running out on your search for love and/or your chance to have children?
The good news is, you're not alone. Millions of women, myself included, have at one time or another fallen prey to bad love habits and limiting relationship beliefs.
The even better news is that there IS a solution!
