Say Sayonara to DEAD END DATING!
Calling all savvy single ladies! Want to know how to look super stylish and capture the interest of cuties?
Recently, personal image consultant Kim Seltzer of http://eliteimagemakeovers.com/ and I window shopped on Montana Avenue in Santa Monica, chatting about style secrets for singles. We fell in love with the cutest boutique called French Lessons. There, we filmed five fab tips singles on how you can look and feel your flirty best this holiday season.
Here's tip #3:
Calling all savvy single ladies! Want to magnetize men to you?
Start by making yourself look more touchable! And that's not all...
Did you know that what you wear underneath your wardrobe changes the way you move/the way you feel/the way you present yourself to men?
Recently, I grabbed my video camera and tripod, and enlisted the expertise of personal image consultant Kim Seltzer of http://eliteimagemakeovers.com/.
Here's what I love about Kim. She's not just a guru when it comes to what to wear. She's also a relationship expert. Love that! So she knows not only what you should wear on dates, but how to score second dates. Woohoo!
Kim revealed five valuable tips for how you can look your best, feel your best, and rock all those holiday parties.
Here's tip #2:
Calling all savvy single ladies! Want to know how to rock your look this holiday season?
Ready to channel your inner diva, make your entrance, and become a man magnet at all those holiday parties?
Recently, I grabbed my video camera and tripod, and enlisted the expertise of personal image consultant Kim Seltzer of http://eliteimagemakeovers.com/.
Here's what I love about Kim. She's not just a guru when it comes to what to wear. She's also a relationship expert. Love that! So she knows not only what you should wear on dates, but how to score second dates. Woohoo!
Kim revealed five valuable tips for how you can look your best, feel your best, and rock all those holiday parties.
Here's tip #1:
Today, let's shake things up!
I want you to write yourself a love letter. This letter is from your perfect partner. Get creative!
Describe all the amazing reasons he loves you.
Connect to why he adores you.
Celebrate the many ways he sees, understands, appreciates, and cherishes you.
Then read the letter back and FEEL how it feels to be this loved.
Keep the letter close to you for future reading. Stay connected to this experience of being LOVED so fully, completely, and unconditionally!
Share the many reasons your perfect partner loves you right here on my blog. I can't wait to hear from you!
Now that you've been participating in my 30 Day Woohoo Challenge for a week, how are you doing?
I've given you a lot of work to do this week. Are you rocking it -- making your lists, getting specific, and defining how love will show up?
Or are you struggling, doubtful, hopeless, and feeling like it's a waste of time?
Either way, I get it. And today, I want you to face your challenges head on. Be honest about your progress and setbacks. And honor where you may be hitting a wall, based on limiting beliefs or fear.
Remember, fear is nothing more than False Evidence Appearing Real.
Today, turn Fear into what my client Angela calls Feeling Excited And Ready!
Got questions? Email me @ ask@lisasteadman.com.
To dive even deeper, continue working the steps in my Bad Love No More ebook.
Yesterday, I asked you to create your list of relationship wants, needs, and requirements.
Today, I want you to get even MORE specific. It's time to define how love FEELS.
We all know the chemical feelings we get when we meet someone new. And the butterflies can be fun but they don't last forever.
So what does real, authentic, amazing, deep love FEEL like?
Does it make you feel centered, appreciated, supported, safe, magnificent, sexy, adored, heard, understood, etc?
Meditate on how love makes you feel.
Journal about it.
Connect to this blissful love regularly to call it in. When it shows up, you'll recognize it and welcome it in. Woohoo!
To dive even deeper, continue working the steps in my Bad Love No More ebook.
And let me know how you're doing by leaving me a comment here or on my Facebook Fan Page.
Now's the time to get specific. You can't call in love until you know what you want, need, and REQUIRE from a partner.
Today, start making your list of relationship qualities and traits your perfect partner possesses. Then divide the list into requirements, wants, and needs. Share your results here or on my Facebook Fan Page.
Today, it's time to set some concrete goals for yourself. Do you want to:
- Find the love of your life in 2010
- Become an ATTRACTION MAGNET
- Put yourself in target rich environments daily
Set your goals. Then visualize yourself achieving those goals and having fun! Once you can visually and viscerally experience your goals, you'll have the proper motivation to go out and get exactly what you want.
Let me know your goals by posting them here on on my Facebook Fan page.
Ever wonder why you haven't yet found the love of your life?
It could have something to do with the stories you tell yourself about your general love worthiness.
Take some time today to dig into your past and unearth the stories that are sabotaging your success. Stories like:
- "I'm too old, fat, ugly, or screwed up to get love right"
- "I missed my chance to get love right. I'll never get the chance again!"
- "My parents are right. No one will ever love me!"
Now's the perfect time to break free from those old stories that just aren't true! Regardless of how long you've been believing them, you can break free, starting today.
In order to change the kind of results you're getting in your love life or your life in general, you must ask yourself how you're resisting change. In resisting change, you actually sabotage your chances of success.
I recently was introduced to the 7 dynamics of change through Success Coach David Neagle. These dynamics were first introduced by Ken Blanchard, a well known management consultant.
Take a look at the following 7 dynamics of change. See which ones resonate most with you. How can you break free of resistance and initiate change in the next 30 days?
1. Change makes people feel awkward, ill-at-ease and self-conscious
2. When it comes to change, people initially focus on what they have to give up
3. Even if everyone else is going through the same change, people will feel alone
4. People can handle only so much change
5. People are at different levels of readiness for change
6. People will be concerned that they don't have enough resources to make lasting change
