Be honest. If Mr. Right showed up on your doorstep today, would you recognize him?
Or would you think he was a stalker, call 911, and have him arrested?
The truth is, most single women don't know how to distinguish between Mr. Wrong, Mr. Next, and Mr. Right.
They waste valuable time in relationship with Mr. Wrong.
They desperately try to make things work with Mr. Next.
And they don't even know what Mr. Right looks or feels like! Oftentimes, they scare potential Mr. Rights away without even knowing it!
So much wasted time and energy can be avoided when you step into the drivers' seat, become The Chooser, and take conscious steps to manifest Mr. Right.
What are these conscious steps? They vary depending on the individual, and may include:
- Breaking free of old patterns and self sabotage
- Understanding why the type of man you’re attracted to/attracting doesn’t work
- Deciding to let love in instead of running and hiding
- Much more
Monthly Archive for January, 2010
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My book If He's Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong - and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right is chock full of valuable information that will help you:
1. Identify the differences between Mr. Wrong, Mr. Next, and Mr. Right
2. Let go of past dating drama and disappointment and welcome a healthier love future
If you want to call in love in 2010, you need to build a success team. And while your friends and family mean well, they may not be well equipped to help you succeed.
They may also be single and looking for love, wondering how to manifest their heart’s desire.
Or they may too busy, too emotionally involved in your efforts, or lack the appropriate skills to guide you on this journey.
You need a real success team.
Just like athletes have coaches, people on weight loss programs hire personal trainers and nutritionists, and entrepreneurs hire business coaches, you need your team members who can hold you accountable, keep you on track, and stay committed to your end goal.
Your team may include:
1. An expert at online dating profile writing
2. A photographer to capture you at your best
3. A dating coach
4. An imagine consultant
Truthfully, you know what you're good at in life, and where you need help. Seek out your success team and watch as your results CATAPULT you into major momentum and happiness.
Wonder what’s keeping the real love deal from finding you?
Think it’s your age, your weight, your geographical location?
It may not be what you think.
Truthfully, YOU may be keeping love away.
If you're holding on to a past relationship, if you have your ex on a pedestal, or if you believe your chance to get love right is behind you, then there's no room for future relationship success.
To make lasting change, you need to stop repeating old patterns like holding onto a past love, open yourself up to the possibility that love CAN happen for you but you need to work at it, and start getting to know new potential dates with an open mind and heart.
This work isn't always easy. And it takes some time and practice. But by being committed, and trusting that the universe wants you to succeed even more than you do, you can embrace your happily ever after journey as it unfolds in 2010.
Happy New Year! As 2010 unfolds, I hope you’re filled with hope, optimism, and action. If you’re single and looking to either let go of your ex once and for all, become a man magnet, or manifest the love of your life in 2010, you most likely need to cultivate some healthy new habits. The following five tips will get you started on the path of health, happiness, and hot dates in the coming year…
Tip #1: Clear out mental/emotional clutter
Hung up on an ex? Stuck in a negative emotional space? Paralyzed by some kind of fear? Your mission in 2010 is to clear out any residual mental/emotional clutter you may be clinging to. It's the clutter that may be holding you back from a life you can truly live and love. So do yourself a favor and take an inventory of your emotional baggage. Then repeat after me: I deserve to live and love my life as it is right now!
Tip #2: Keep a gratitude journal
While there will always be something we wish we could change (our bodies, our debt, our job, etc.), it's important to make peace with our lives as they are right now. That doesn't mean you can't strive for change. It just means you need to take time to be grateful for your life right now. Every day, write down five things you are grateful for. You can start with this: I am grateful for my life as it is right now!
Tip #3: Be honest about what you want
