Yesterday, I asked you to create your list of relationship wants, needs, and requirements.
Today, I want you to get even MORE specific. It's time to define how love FEELS.
We all know the chemical feelings we get when we meet someone new. And the butterflies can be fun but they don't last forever.
So what does real, authentic, amazing, deep love FEEL like?
Does it make you feel centered, appreciated, supported, safe, magnificent, sexy, adored, heard, understood, etc?
Meditate on how love makes you feel.
Journal about it.
Connect to this blissful love regularly to call it in. When it shows up, you'll recognize it and welcome it in. Woohoo!
To dive even deeper, continue working the steps in my Bad Love No More ebook.
And let me know how you're doing by leaving me a comment here or on my Facebook Fan Page.
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Now's the time to get specific. You can't call in love until you know what you want, need, and REQUIRE from a partner.
Today, start making your list of relationship qualities and traits your perfect partner possesses. Then divide the list into requirements, wants, and needs. Share your results here or on my Facebook Fan Page.
Today, it's time to set some concrete goals for yourself. Do you want to:
- Find the love of your life in 2010
- Become an ATTRACTION MAGNET
- Put yourself in target rich environments daily
Set your goals. Then visualize yourself achieving those goals and having fun! Once you can visually and viscerally experience your goals, you'll have the proper motivation to go out and get exactly what you want.
Let me know your goals by posting them here on on my Facebook Fan page.
Ever wonder why you haven't yet found the love of your life?
It could have something to do with the stories you tell yourself about your general love worthiness.
Take some time today to dig into your past and unearth the stories that are sabotaging your success. Stories like:
- "I'm too old, fat, ugly, or screwed up to get love right"
- "I missed my chance to get love right. I'll never get the chance again!"
- "My parents are right. No one will ever love me!"
Now's the perfect time to break free from those old stories that just aren't true! Regardless of how long you've been believing them, you can break free, starting today.
In order to change the kind of results you're getting in your love life or your life in general, you must ask yourself how you're resisting change. In resisting change, you actually sabotage your chances of success.
I recently was introduced to the 7 dynamics of change through Success Coach David Neagle. These dynamics were first introduced by Ken Blanchard, a well known management consultant.
Take a look at the following 7 dynamics of change. See which ones resonate most with you. How can you break free of resistance and initiate change in the next 30 days?
1. Change makes people feel awkward, ill-at-ease and self-conscious
2. When it comes to change, people initially focus on what they have to give up
3. Even if everyone else is going through the same change, people will feel alone
4. People can handle only so much change
5. People are at different levels of readiness for change
6. People will be concerned that they don't have enough resources to make lasting change
The other night, I gave my final FREE call of the year on the subject of "Calling in the One." The response was so tremendous -- my most popular call of the year -- and I've received so much e-mail since then with follow-up questions, Thanks so much for your participation and questions! Your feedback got me thinking... It's not enough to share these five success strategies that I implemented to call in my husband. I want you to step in to action. I want you to start implementing those success strategies, starting yesterday. :-) I want to give you a 30 day challenge. Are you up for it? Here's the deal. The replay of my FREE call can be accessed here: You can listen to it, enjoy it, and never change a thing. OR... You can step into action, join my challenge, and change what's possible for you in the next 30 days. It's your decision.
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LISA'S FREE CALL
I’ve got another great tip to celebrate your single self this holiday season...
I want you to become a flirting master!
Now, you don’t have to lose 20 pounds to rock your inner flirt.
You don’t have to get plastic surgery or get a new wardrobe either.
Flirting can happen anytime, anywhere, with anyone.
When you're at the grocery store and looking for produce, keep a look out for the cuties in your vicinity. Smile, make eye contact, and give him permission to approach.
By giving yourself permission to be open and to see who's in your environment, you can start flirting and having fun today. This is your chance to reclaim your fabulousness, and what better time then the holiday season!
To celebrate your sassy self, report your progress to me @ ask@lisasteadman.com.
With the holidays upon us, healing and moving on from a broken heart can be especially challenging.
You worry about being the only one minus a plus one at parties.
And sometimes you're freaked out because you don’t want to answer all of those mind numbing and selfish questions:
Where’s whats his name?
What happened?
What went wrong THIS time?
Sound familiar? I get it. I've been there myself.
Healing your heart during the holidays can feel painful, hurtful, and like there's something wrong with you.
Before you hide under the covers until New Year's, give yourself permission to pick and choose the parties you go to.
Now, don't become hermit -- choose the parties where there will be people who love you, support you, and nurture you. Gravitate towards situations where your friends and loved ones can help you celebrate your single status.
In the search for love, it’s easy to get sidetracked by bad dates, broken hearts, and bad love habits. And while bad dates and broken hearts are part of the journey toward happily ever after, bad love habits are an unnecessary evil that you can easily break free of once you identify those silent saboteurs.
So what’s a bad love habit? Any dysfunctional, destructive, dramatic belief you have about love, your general worthiness, and what's possible for you on the dating scene. The following are some common bad love habits:
• Do you secretly fear that the guys you really want to date aren't into you, while the guys you're not into can't get enough of you? (And if so, how's that working in your dating life?)
• Do you choose potential partners who are incapable of meeting your emotional needs?
• Do you think love and relationships have to be difficult, disappointing, dramatic, and/or depressing?
• Are you convinced that your potential partner is going to fix whatever it is that you don’t like about yourself or your life so you don't have to do anything right now but sit back and wait for him to show up?
• Are you terrified that time is running out on your search for love and/or your chance to have children?
The good news is, you're not alone. Millions of women, myself included, have at one time or another fallen prey to bad love habits and limiting relationship beliefs.
The even better news is that there IS a solution!
