Bad Love No More

Do you know the difference between Mr. Wrong, Mr. Next, & Mr. Right?

Lisa Steadman — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 14:00:00 +0000

Be honest. If Mr. Right showed up on your doorstep today, would you recognize him?

Or would you think he was a stalker, call 911, and have him arrested?

The truth is, most single women don't know how to distinguish between Mr. Wrong, Mr. Next, and Mr. Right.

They waste valuable time in relationship with Mr. Wrong.

They desperately try to make things work with Mr. Next.

And they don't even know what Mr. Right looks or feels like! Oftentimes, they scare potential Mr. Rights away without even knowing it!

So much wasted time and energy can be avoided when you step into the drivers' seat, become The Chooser, and take conscious steps to manifest Mr. Right.

What are these conscious steps? They vary depending on the individual, and may include:

- Breaking free of old patterns and self sabotage
- Understanding why the type of man you’re attracted to/attracting doesn’t work
- Deciding to let love in instead of running and hiding
- Much more

My 24 hour If He’s Not The One, Who Is? campaign launches Thursday, January 14

Lisa Steadman — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 20:17:02 +0000

Woohoo! My new book If He's Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong - and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right launches on Thursday, January 14.

For 24 hours ONLY, you can get over $1,500 in valuable FREE bonus materials when you buy my book on Amazon.com!

For just $15, you’ll get $1,500 in FREE audio programs, a bonus e-book, and 24 hour access to my EXCLUSIVE guest expert archive (including interviews with The Soul Mate Secret’s Arielle Ford, The Heart Whisperer™ Kara Oh, Prince Harming Syndrome author Karen Salmansohn, Tao of Dating author Dr. Alex Benzer, and more!) that only my private and teleclass clients have access to!

My book If He's Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong - and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right is chock full of valuable information that will help you:

1. Identify the differences between Mr. Wrong, Mr. Next, and Mr. Right

2. Let go of past dating drama and disappointment and welcome a healthier love future

Who’s on your success team?

Lisa Steadman — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 14:00:00 +0000

If you want to call in love in 2010, you need to build a success team. And while your friends and family mean well, they may not be well equipped to help you succeed.

They may also be single and looking for love, wondering how to manifest their heart’s desire.

Or they may too busy, too emotionally involved in your efforts, or lack the appropriate skills to guide you on this journey.

You need a real success team.

Just like athletes have coaches, people on weight loss programs hire personal trainers and nutritionists, and entrepreneurs hire business coaches, you need your team members who can hold you accountable, keep you on track, and stay committed to your end goal.

Your team may include:

1. An expert at online dating profile writing
2. A photographer to capture you at your best
3. A dating coach
4. An imagine consultant

Truthfully, you know what you're good at in life, and where you need help. Seek out your success team and watch as your results CATAPULT you into major momentum and happiness.

Is your past keeping you from meeting Mr. Right?

Lisa Steadman — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 14:00:00 +0000

Wonder what’s keeping the real love deal from finding you?

Think it’s your age, your weight, your geographical location?

It may not be what you think.

Truthfully, YOU may be keeping love away.

If you're holding on to a past relationship, if you have your ex on a pedestal, or if you believe your chance to get love right is behind you, then there's no room for future relationship success.

To make lasting change, you need to stop repeating old patterns like holding onto a past love, open yourself up to the possibility that love CAN happen for you but you need to work at it, and start getting to know new potential dates with an open mind and heart.

This work isn't always easy. And it takes some time and practice. But by being committed, and trusting that the universe wants you to succeed even more than you do, you can embrace your happily ever after journey as it unfolds in 2010.

New Year, New You: Success strategies for singles in 2010

Lisa Steadman — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 13:45:55 +0000

Happy New Year! As 2010 unfolds, I hope you’re filled with hope, optimism, and action. If you’re single and looking to either let go of your ex once and for all, become a man magnet, or manifest the love of your life in 2010, you most likely need to cultivate some healthy new habits. The following five tips will get you started on the path of health, happiness, and hot dates in the coming year…

Tip #1: Clear out mental/emotional clutter

Hung up on an ex? Stuck in a negative emotional space? Paralyzed by some kind of fear? Your mission in 2010 is to clear out any residual mental/emotional clutter you may be clinging to. It's the clutter that may be holding you back from a life you can truly live and love. So do yourself a favor and take an inventory of your emotional baggage. Then repeat after me: I deserve to live and love my life as it is right now!

Tip #2: Keep a gratitude journal

While there will always be something we wish we could change (our bodies, our debt, our job, etc.), it's important to make peace with our lives as they are right now. That doesn't mean you can't strive for change. It just means you need to take time to be grateful for your life right now. Every day, write down five things you are grateful for. You can start with this: I am grateful for my life as it is right now!

Tip #3: Be honest about what you want

Get Your Holiday Style On: How to be mysterious AND a man magnet!

Lisa Steadman — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 15:00:00 +0000

Calling all savvy single ladies! Want to know how to look super stylish and capture the interest of cuties?

Recently, personal image consultant Kim Seltzer of http://eliteimagemakeovers.com/ and I window shopped on Montana Avenue in Santa Monica, chatting about style secrets for singles. We fell in love with the cutest boutique called French Lessons. There, we filmed five fab tips singles on how you can look and feel your flirty best this holiday season.

Here's tip #3:

Get Your Holiday Style On: Make yourself touchable!

Lisa Steadman — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:00:00 +0000

Calling all savvy single ladies! Want to magnetize men to you?

Start by making yourself look more touchable! And that's not all...

Did you know that what you wear underneath your wardrobe changes the way you move/the way you feel/the way you present yourself to men?

Recently, I grabbed my video camera and tripod, and enlisted the expertise of personal image consultant Kim Seltzer of http://eliteimagemakeovers.com/.

Here's what I love about Kim. She's not just a guru when it comes to what to wear. She's also a relationship expert. Love that! So she knows not only what you should wear on dates, but how to score second dates. Woohoo!

Kim revealed five valuable tips for how you can look your best, feel your best, and rock all those holiday parties.

Here's tip #2:

Get Your Holiday Style On: How to turn heads, magnetize men, and have fun this holiday season

Lisa Steadman — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 15:00:00 +0000

Calling all savvy single ladies! Want to know how to rock your look this holiday season?

Ready to channel your inner diva, make your entrance, and become a man magnet at all those holiday parties?

Recently, I grabbed my video camera and tripod, and enlisted the expertise of personal image consultant Kim Seltzer of http://eliteimagemakeovers.com/.

Kim revealed five valuable tips for how you can look your best, feel your best, and rock all those holiday parties.

Here's tip #1:

30 Day Woohoo Challenge: Day #9 — Write Yourself A Love Letter (from your juicy, dreamy partner!)

Lisa Steadman — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 14:00:00 +0000

Today, let's shake things up!

I want you to write yourself a love letter. This letter is from your perfect partner. Get creative!

Describe all the amazing reasons he loves you.

Connect to why he adores you.

Celebrate the many ways he sees, understands, appreciates, and cherishes you.

Then read the letter back and FEEL how it feels to be this loved.

Keep the letter close to you for future reading. Stay connected to this experience of being LOVED so fully, completely, and unconditionally!

Share the many reasons your perfect partner loves you right here on my blog. I can't wait to hear from you!

30 Day Woohoo Challenge: Day #8 — Assess Your Progress

Lisa Steadman — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 19:43:33 +0000

Now that you've been participating in my 30 Day Woohoo Challenge for a week, how are you doing?

I've given you a lot of work to do this week. Are you rocking it -- making your lists, getting specific, and defining how love will show up?

Or are you struggling, doubtful, hopeless, and feeling like it's a waste of time?

Either way, I get it. And today, I want you to face your challenges head on. Be honest about your progress and setbacks. And honor where you may be hitting a wall, based on limiting beliefs or fear.

Remember, fear is nothing more than False Evidence Appearing Real.

Today, turn Fear into what my client Angela calls Feeling Excited And Ready!

Got questions? Email me @ ask@lisasteadman.com.

To dive even deeper, continue working the steps in my Bad Love No More ebook.